“Generals always fight the last war, especially if they won it.”
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The first dreams we ever had were to be held. And loved. And to explore this amazing world with love in our lives.
We dreamed of seeing, touching, and experiencing the world around us, with the happiness and comfort that comes from family.
As adults, many of us dream of building a family, and do so.
It’s the day-to-day realities that don’t always feel so dreamy. We get busy, exhausted, and overwhelmed. We’re changing diapers, cleaning up spills, searching for a jolt of caffeine to keep our eyes propped open until we can fall face first into a pillow.
Along the way, we sometimes see some work dreams take a back seat. We worry they may slip away, that we may never get back to them.
There are tough tradeoffs that moms and dads have to make every day. But since my son’s birth, I’ve stopped seeing those tradeoffs as sacrifice.
Because when we give up something for a time to make sure we’re putting enough focus into our families, we’re not giving up dreams. We’re committing to our biggest, deepest ones.
We’re prioritizing the dreams that make up who we are.
Monica, in her usual fashion, takes over completely, leaving Phoebe in charge of only cups and ice. Phoebe decides to make the most of it; she makes everything imaginable out of cups, and serves every kind of ice.
So the next time Monica gives you cups and ice, just ask yourself, what would Phoebe do, and do that. It’s the hard way out. But worth it.
(Note: video added and minor edits Jan 18, 2016 while writing this post about Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. – EGS)
“Every day we should hear at least one little song, read one good poem, see one exquisite picture, and, if possible, speak a few sensible words.” – Goethe
Let me tell you a story of the cod fish. At the turn of the century cod fish were in much demand on the east coast. News of this tasty fish spread across the country all the way to the west coast. There was however a problem. How could they get the fish across the country and still keep it fresh.
They tried to freeze the fish and send it by rail, the fastest means at the time. When it was prepared it turn out to be very mushy and lacked flavor. Then someone decided to ship the fish live turning railroad cars into huge saltwater aquariums. When the cod fish arrived they were still alive but when they were prepared they were still mushy and tasteless.
After studying the cod fish someone discovered that their natural enemy was the catfish.
This time when the cod fish were but in the tanks they place a few catfish in with them. Those catfish chased the cod fish all the way across the country to the west coast. This time when they were prepared they were flaky and had the same flavor as they did when they were caught fresh and prepared on the east coast.
You see the catfish kept the cod from becoming stale. The catfish kept them fresh.
“The first step before anyone else in the world believes it. Is you have to believe it.”
So hereâ€™s my advice: If you want to become an entrepreneurâ€¦ or a musician, an occupational therapist, a magician â€” or whatever â€” be certain that you know what excites you and why you want to succeed, and donâ€™t fret over how youâ€™ll get there. Know that when youâ€™re driven by the right motivating forces, you will eventually discover all the right things necessary to succeed. (source)
– Jay Steinfeld, CEO of Blinds.com
Sometimes advice is populist, but there is a logical flaw. A company who follows the infamous â€œwork smarter not harderâ€ quickly falls to a company that believes â€œwork smarter AND harder.â€ Working smarter-not-harder would only work if hard workers were dumb. But we get smarter through experience! So unfortunately, hard workers are typically also smarter than you. Oooops. But we donâ€™t like to admit that. What we want to hear is that theÂ 4 hour work week is a winner. Â I certainly wish the global economy worked that way. (But it doesn’t)
You can read the full post at When to Apply Business Advice.
â€œI hate the word â€œgenius.â€ I think people misuse it. They think that if someoneâ€™s a genius, everything just happens. Thatâ€™s bullshit. Itâ€™s about respecting yourself and your talent, and realizing that there are no shortcuts. Whether itâ€™s now or later, you have to put in the effort to get from point A to point B. You canâ€™t just take a side street.â€