don’t be so judgmental

“I always laugh when somebody says, “don’t be so judgmental.” betty boopBeing judgmental is just what we do. Not being judgmental really would be like death. Normative behavior is normal. That original self-conscious, slightly despairing glance in the mirror (together with, “Is this it?” or “Is that all there is?”) is a great enabler because it compels us to seek improvement.”
Andy Martin, NYT The Phenomenology of Ugly